打一巴掌,給個甜棗 dǎ yī bā zhang , gěi gè tián zǎo

hurt then comfort; punish then reward

Word data

HSK Not in HSK
Frequency Unknown

Definitions

  1. 1. fig. to deal harshly with sb, then offer sth by way of consolation
  2. 2. lit. to give sb a slap, then offer a sweet date (idiom)

Characters

Character Meaning
to hit; to strike; to beat
one; 1; single
noun suffix; to stick to; bus
palm of the hand; to hold in one's hand; to slap
to; for; to give
classifier for people or objects in general; individual
sweet
jujube; dates